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Shawn Jr has an appointment Monday to have a CT scan and pre-operation visit with the anesthesiologists. He will then have the surgery on his neck and scalp on Tuesday.  By Tuesday we should also have back the BRAF tests.  We are hoping he does not have the BRAF mutation.  

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